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Mary or Martha?

When I saw this picture I immediately knew what it was even though it was blurry and unfocused.  What about you?  It is a picture of Christmas Lights! 

How many times does this become the picture of our relationship with God and our purpose in whatever we are doing?  I know what it is, but it has become blurred by the stuff.  So many times I find myself caught in the business of details and forget, if even for a moment, the reason I do what I do. 

Last night as I sat on my bed just before the lights were out, I diligently planned for today, next week and the days and hours left before we go to two services.  As I was sitting there, stressing out about it all, I was reminded of something.  It is easy for me to become Martha and hard for me to remember to be Mary.

It is easy for me to see the details and all the things that need to get done.  I am certainly willing to get in there and do it – take care of all the things that need to take place so that everything can get done.  What doesn’t come as easy for me is just sitting – being still and knowing that He is God. 

Last night as I sat there, stressed and overwhelmed, God reminded me it’s not about the stuff…it’s still about Him.  Sometimes I have to remind myself the importance of sitting at the feet of Jesus and just enjoying his presence.  The “stuff” will still be there when I finish! 

It is so easy to become of focused on something that is just a piece of the big picture and not even realize your concentrated focus has caused you to lose focus on the big picture.

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Weekend Recap

  • Slept til 8:00 two days in a row
  • Worked in the flower garden
  • Had 12 adults at small group and 8 kids
  • Slept 3 hours Saturday night
  • Finished the book Leadership Essentials for children’s ministry by Craig Jutila
  • Read two more chapters in Children’s Ministry in the 21st century by Craig Jutila, Jim Wideman & Pat Verbal
  • Read another chapter in The Up The Middle Church by Matt Keller
  • Talk to a couple of people about volunteering in Kid’s ROCK
  • Learned a lot about myself
  • Reminded of how this is not about me and my ability but all about God and His willingness to use me.
  • Excited tomorrow is Monday and I get to go to work!

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What does this say about church?

Would this happen as a result of your Children’s Ministry?

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Amazing Volunteers

Recently I have had 3 very different experiences in regards to volunteering.

The first volunteer came to the office.  Walked with me down to the classrooms, took the list and papers I had prepared for her, and got busy.  I saw her only twice after that.  Once when she came to ask me where to find something and again when she was handing me the checklist, telling me she had finished and saying goodbye.  Most people will probably never know what she did.  Most people will show up on Sunday, go to those classes, and just enjoy all she did without even realizing she did it.  What an amazing volunteer!

The second volunteer – Someone came to me saying she really want to help in Children’s Ministry.  She had seen a need the other day and knew she could serve in that capacity.    You know what it was…the need to have someone at the check-in desk to greet visitors and walk them down to their classrooms after they are checked in.  You know who it was – one of our Founding Pastors – Pastor Norma.  What an amazing volunteer!

The third volunteer was someone I watched struggle through our last meeting.  I have known this volunteer almost as long as I have been a part of  ROCK Church.  She has served faithfully and she and her husband have jumped in where ever they were needed in the church.  She told me she was really struggling with working every Sunday in her current position because it wasn’t something that came easy to her.  It was actually quite stressful for her, but she didn’t want to seem like she wasn’t doing her part.  She is getting more involved in a ministry that really is her passion but said she would be happy to be a sub!  I was so excited…not because I was losing a great volunteer, but because that volunteer was finding her true passion and place in ministry and that she was willing to still help us out when we needed it.  What an amazing volunteer!

I mean it…I feel so honored and blessed to get to serve alongside such amazing people!  In every situation I was absolutely humbled by the heart of a servant that was so evident in their lives.  Thank you Kid’s ROCK volunteers for all you do for ROCK Church!

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Planning, Planning, Planning

These week has been the first week I have actually felt like I was getting ahead and on top of what was going on.  I spent most of the week, planning and preparing materials for the next two months.  Anyone that knows me as a teacher, knows how much that is a stretch for me.  I tend to think in the minute and those usually only be one step ahead of whomever I am teaching.  In all my years of teaching I never got ahead.  I would plan a week at a time because that is how I think.

This job requires more of me.  It means I have to think ahead, plan ahead, and prepare for what is coming so that others can plan ahead, and prepare for what I am asking them to teach in the classrooms.  Through this whole process God has really been teaching a principle….He will never send us what we haven’t prepared for! 

If we are only prepared for what we now have to deal with, He will never send us more.  He doesn’t want to send his hurting lost children to a church that isn’t prepared and ready to love them.  If all we ever do is meet the present need, then we are never gonna be ready for the harvest.  My goal is to have every classroom overstaffed, every room plan ready so that when the kids come we are prepared, ready,  and willing to serve.

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Time Management

For the last 8 years I worked on a very structured schedule.  Almost to the minute I could tell you where I’d be and what I’d be doing during my week or at least during my working hours.  I taught Pre-K.  It was a highly structured, non-stop, on all the time kind of job. 

Now I’m working in a much less structured environment that requires me to oversee far more than I did in a classroom with much less structure to do it.  As I have started reading blogs and information from other Children’s Ministries, I ran across this.  Who knew I wasn’t the only one that struggled with this?  When I first read it, I was pretty sceptical.  I mean really, who needs a stop watch for time management?  A cell phone helping with structure and organization?  It’s more of a distraction to me.  But over the course of the last couple of weeks, I have gone back to read this several times.  I am starting to think it is some of the best advice I’ve ever read on time management.

How do you make the most of your time?

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What a difference a day can make!

So yesterday I battled the bad attitude ALL DAY for no good reason, but today I found my happy place.

A dear friend met me at work today to help out with organizing stuff and talking through some ideas…hears what we accomplished.

  • Organized the entire section of craft materials in the storage room
  • Got props and materials for Club ROCK’s next series Ten Hut – I can’t wait!  It is gonna be so much fun!
  • Discussed and planned out how to make going to Kid’s ROCK so much fun that the only time we see tears are when we tell them we have to leave.

Now all I need is

  • a lot of wood
  • a lot of paint
  • a john boat (or some other kind of boat and a way to fit it through a door)
  • velvet curtains
  • did I mention – a lot of wood
  • old instruments (drums, trumpets, flutes, guitars, etc)
  • some carpenters
  • some painters
  • some artist
  • some time

And poof…we will have it!

Lesson of the day – What a difference a day can make!  I can’t wait to see what God is gonna do in Kid’s ROCK.

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Attitude Adjustment

Ever have days when everything and anything rubs you the wrong way?  If you don’t then please make sure to tell me your secret.  I don’t get like this often (at least I don’t think so – Johnny may disagree) but when I do you may want to keep your distance.  Today I was there -  just down right grumpy.  No real reason…lots of little reasons but nothing that would have constituted the state of  my grumpiness.

Made me wonder – wonder what people in the Bible were like when they had this kinda day.  Did Elisha want to call down fire from heaven on his bad days, did Moses want to hold out his rod and silence everyone?  Did David want to break his harp over someone’s head or did Paul revert back to the thoughts of beheading people?  Just kidding – I wasn’t that bad today.

We have joked all week about finding our happy place.  My happy place is when I am alone, it is quiet and I can think without interruption.  I can be alone at my house, alone at work, or alone in my car…but sometimes I just need the world around me to stop making noise so that I can hear myself think and more importantly hear what the Father is saying.  When the girls go to bed, I will enjoy my happy place til the boys get home from football.  Hopefully by that time I will have found my happy place and gotten my attitude adjusted!

Do you have a happy place?  Where do you go when you need your attitude adjusted?

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Joshua

If you know me, you know that I love the story of Joshua and Caleb in the Bible.  Probably not too terribly hard to figure out since our son’s name is Caleb. 

Recently, however, it seems the story of Joshua is popping up everywhere.  I mean everywhere.  We use 3 different curriculum in Kid’s ROCK right now.  They all come from three different organizations yet as I have been preparing for the lessons, Joshua keeps popping up in all of them.  Wee Rock is studying Joshua and how “God takes care of us”, and Rock Stars and Club Rock will both be starting a series on Joshua in August.  That seemed a little odd cool to me then…

Tonight I picked up the book I started reading about a month ago and opened it to the page I left off only to see the story of Joshua leading the children of Israel across the Jordan.  Cool didn’t seem to be the right word to discribe what I was thinking then.  Hmmmm…is God saying something?

When I think of the life of Joshua – here’s what I think about…

  1. He was a man of faith-not moved by what he saw
  2. He was humble – did not demonstrate an “I told you so” attitude
  3. Before he lead, he SERVED and served LOYALLY
  4. He was not afraid of looking stupid
  5. He made mistakes
  6. He lead with clear direction and vision from the Lord
  7. He lead differently than Moses – Moses did what God told him and the responsibility to do it was on Moses.  Joshua lead be empowering the people to follow the directives the Lord had given Joshua. 

I know there is more.  Give me your insights.  When you think of Joshua in the Bible, what do you think of?

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Amazing Volunteers!

Last night we had an Ordination Service at ROCK Church and I had to coordinate volunteers for Childcare.  I told them they would need to be there around 5:30 but that it would be over around 7:30 so by 8:00 they should be done.  Well, needless to say, I was wrong and things ,I’m learning, rarely go as planned.

I went down to the classrooms around 7:15 to let the teachers know we were running behind schedule and it would be a little longer.  They smiled and said “no problem”.  They didn’t get finished and cleaned up until around 9, yet not once did anyone grumble or complain.  They left smiling and saying “your welcome”.  What an amazing group of people to work with. 

Today I thought about that and realized there have been times where I have served and things didn’t go as planned and I was not as gracious or forgiving as the volunteers that served last night were.  Because of their gracious serving families were able to participate in an event that they may have missed out on otherwise.  Parent’s got to experience an amazing ordination and children got ministered to in their own special way.

Thank you volunteers for being so gracious and loving to ROCK Church and the community we live in!  I love you guys!

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